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Brave up to tackle and survive bullying at the workplace

Treating workplace bullying as a matter of public health rather than employment law is necessary

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Brave up to tackle and survive bullying at the workplace
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Taking space by stepping away can disrupt the immediate intensity of the situation. It helps you stay in control rather than allowing a bully to force you to respond impulsively in the moment, which can lead you to say or do something you'll regret

The phenomenon of bullying, harassment and sexual abuse in workplaces throughout the world, including North America, is widespread and harmful to both individuals and organisations. In fact, bullying at work affects up to 30% of workers. As practitioners and researchers who study workplace violence like bullying, harassment and sexual abuse, we define workplace bullying as harmful acts of mistreatment between people that go beyond incivility and cross the line to intentionally causing harm.

Bullying behaviours range from verbally insulting or socially excluding someone to sabotaging the victim's work, inflicting psychological terror and engaging in sexual abuse or physical aggression. Manipulation and provocation also play a role in bullying dynamics. Cyber-bullying has emerged as a new form of workplace harassment.

Research suggests the impacts of workplace bullying affect employee’s health and safety and the workplace overall. In a grocery store line, if someone invades your space, shoves you aside or threatens physical harm, the police may intervene, potentially resulting in an arrest. However, in the workplace, incidents involving bullying, assault, sexual abuse or other forms of violence are typically addressed through internal investigations.

Our research suggests that treating workplace bullying as a matter of public health rather than employment law is necessary to protect those being targeted. It results in real harms with the victims often experiencing serious repercussions, including stress and burnout, along with other diagnosed mental health issues and, in extreme cases, suicide.

Bullying can affect physical health, with symptoms including sleep disturbances, cardiovascular diseases, body aches and pain, loss of appetite and headaches. Victims often describe an inability to concentrate; since they're spending time worrying about what is going to happen to them next, while job performance suffers. The negative impacts can spill over to a target's personal life and affect their relationships with family and friends.

It's not unusual for targeted workers to feel uncomfortable coming forward and talking about their experiences. But suffering in silence can lead to an even more toxic climate at work that can undermine the victim’s sense of security, with long-term consequences for their well-being.

Traits of bullies and their targets: Workplace bullies often target those who possess qualities highly valued by employers: self-sufficiency, cautiousness and innovativeness. Those targeted typically are motivated, have a kind perspective and prefer to avoid getting involved in office politics or engaging in competitive behaviour. They take charge of their work and responsibilities. Bullying often involves an imbalance of power, where the perpetrator acts to obtain power and control over the target. Researchers find that bullies tend to have low self-esteem, problems with anger management and even personality disorders. They often target people based on their appearance, behaviour, race, religion, educational background, LGBTQ+ identity or because of perceived threats to their own careers. There's no hard-and-fast profile, but males tend to exhibit more of the traits associated with bullying. Those who possess tendencies toward what psychologists call dark triad traits – Machiavellianism, subclinical psychopathy and subclinical narcissism – often gravitate toward jobs that offer high levels of freedom and hierarchical structures.

Are you being bullied? Have you noticed a decline in your emotional or physical health? Is your job performance being affected? Feeling constantly stressed, anxious or demoralised are signs that something isn't right. Think about whether you feel singled out. Do you sense that you're being isolated because of how others treat you? If you do conclude you're being bullied, your first priority is keeping yourself safe. Defending yourself against workplace bullying takes courage, but there are steps you can take to diffuse, distance and document what is happening to you.

In the moment when bullying is occurring, focus on trying to keep your emotions in check and avoid being reactive. Taking space by stepping away can disrupt the immediate intensity of the situation. It helps you stay in control rather than allowing a bully to force you to respond impulsively in the moment, which can lead you to say or do something you'll regret. Try your best to de-escalate the situation.

Some tips on stopping an interaction: Using polite, firm language to ask the bully to stop the conversation. It is good to ask the bully to leave immediately or by removing yourself from the situation if the bully won't go and informing your supervisor immediately.

An effective step in handling such a situation is in engaging yourself by planning to meet a friend or colleague well in advance. Rehearse a bullying situation and practice how you would respond to help you get comfortable using emotional distancing and de-escalation. Advance practice can help you handle an emotionally charged encounter. Seek the support and safety of your peers. Strive for an attitude of strength and confidence in yourself. Workplace bullies often choose to attack people they peg as easy targets. Present a strong front, trust in yourself and have confidence in your work – these attributes may make you less likely to be targeted. Document your experiences when you perceive there is a problem.

Be objective: Note the time and date, what happened, who was present, what was said and how it made you feel. Keeping a record helps quantify what is happening. Your organisation should have policies and procedures to support you if you believe you are being bullied at work.

A caveat: Keep in mind, human resources departments are often ill-equipped to manage these issues, and complaints may be mishandled, improperly dismissed or simply ignored. Sometimes, if you're able, it is better to look for a new job. In order to effectively tackle the problem of workplace bullying and harassment, it is important for both employees and organisations to acknowledge and actively address these concerns.

(Jason Walker is associate Professor of Applied Psychology, Adler University; and Deborah Circo is assistant Professor of Social Work, University of Nebraska Omaha)

Workplace Bullying Harassment Sexual Abuse Health Impacts Workplace Safety Psychological Distress 
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